Balance- Balance on, balance of -how to create less stress in your relation

Life sure isn’t easy.  We all strive with different things in our lives, some are married and live in a family life and some are single and live a single life, bot can be stressful.

In what ever way we live we have to try to find the way to a less stressful life. – For sure it is not easy.

When I met my boyfriend we started very early to live together. In the beginning of course everything was very flowering. When your in love your in love and it itself is amazing. The decision of living together required some planning and extra effort and in the beginning I did not see it at all. WE just kept on going with what we did before and continued to do all the knew things aswell. Well with a simple calculation anyone can understand what happend, less time and more stress!

So even though we planned and packed where we both where allowed to take our time, it even though has been very stressful. It is a long-time stress that both of us has noticed. The stress has come and set down on our minds and caused us an inharmonius  feeling.

Even though the life itself require us from doing certain thing as working and living our life, we said to us that we as a couple have to try to create a harmonic way. For me myself I am very sensitive to stress. I don’t work as well and I am unxious to change it so the life fit’s me well again.

This has become a good lesson to me, we can still be we but we as a couple need to take care of ourself and us we as a couple.

Life is about balance, and when you are in balance you feel so much better, therefor balance is a life goal to strive for.

Sophie Berg.