Stressed and bothersome situations like filling in forms –
We live in an administrative society. We are obliged to fill in documents and forms. How we fill it in or forget to fill it results in a certain response from the authorities. If we don’t fill it in correct a response from the authorities is instantly started. Without a correct answer the authorities are unable to take a decision, so the one who did not fill in the form correct will have written answer back that information is missing. And so the process goes on and on.
Sometimes the questioned information is tricky to get so it is not always an easy given answer, you need to spend a lot of time to get the information. It may cause you a lot of stress. And in some situations in life, or period, it may actually cause you extremely lot of stress. It some situation it may arise an overflow in your life with documents and forms in addition to the problem you have. It can be a divorce, cause of death, accident, or a sickness.
The overflow with administrative work is so big and in addition to that you actually need to manage your daily life or work makes the situation even harder. This is something we very seldom speak about. As citizens we are obliged to follow the law and follow the demands of authorities. However it is very hard to your own voice heard in a democratic society, we shall not forget it is our right to express it and a should if something is wrong.
The stress that cause you the grey hair
The two last weeks I spend answering questions from the authorities and trying to give them their answer. In my situation it caused me so much time that wished to spend on my blogs but instead I been contacting their customer services, going to meetings and writing long letters to answer their question to find out that they forgot to inform me about this form. This is bad luck and a lack in their communication process that caused me lots of stress.
I believe all this communication is big cost and in a stressful society we must strive for a much more tolerant authorities that are listening to individual needs. The lack of time really caused me big problem and their negative decisions a lot of money. But in the end stressful and bothersome situations arise and it is up to you how you deal with them. Think about how you can balance your stress level.