Filling in forms an unpleasant stress

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Calos: Filling in forms can be stressful.

Stressed and bothersome situations like filling in forms

We live in an administrative society. We are obliged to fill in documents and forms. How we fill it in or forget to fill it results in a certain response from the authorities. If we don’t fill it in correct a response from the authorities is instantly started. Without a correct answer the authorities are unable to take a decision, so the one who did not fill in the form correct will have written answer back that information is missing. And so the process goes on and on.

Sometimes the questioned information is tricky to get so it is not always an easy given answer, you need to spend a lot of time to get the information. It may cause you a lot of stress. And in some situations in life, or period, it may actually cause you extremely lot of stress. It some situation it may arise an overflow in your life with documents and forms in addition to the problem you have. It can be a divorce, cause of death, accident, or a sickness.

The overflow with administrative work is so big and in addition to that you actually need to manage your daily life or work makes the situation even harder.    This is something we very seldom speak about. As citizens we are obliged to follow the law and follow the demands of authorities. However it is very hard to your own voice heard in a democratic society, we shall not forget it is our right to express it and a should if something is wrong.

The stress that cause you the grey hair

The two last weeks I spend answering questions from the authorities and trying to give them their answer. In my situation it caused me so much time that wished to spend on my blogs but instead I been contacting their customer services, going to meetings and writing long letters to answer their question to find out that they forgot to inform me about this form. This is bad luck and a lack in their communication process that caused me lots of stress.

I believe all this communication is big cost and in a stressful society we must strive for a much more tolerant authorities that are listening to individual needs. The lack of time really caused me big problem and their negative decisions a lot of money. But in the end stressful and bothersome situations arise and it is up to you how you deal with them. Think about how you can balance your stress level.

Anti-stress A day of rest is a day without stress

Calos - recover with balance
The stress the hacker caused my can be solved. Focus at the solution and don’t forget to keep in balance.

Stress or no stress?!- it’s your choice

Climbing can be fun but also very dangerous and the fact is that I feel like I have been climbing on a mountain for a long time. I put myself into dangerous and challenging situations over a long time period. I wasn’t aware of it, like many of us, we sometimes do. I can bee that when you are just in the middle of it you just have to put up with it to survive it. You sort it out by holding your breath. And it might challenge you or  it might hold you back.  However it is your choice what outcome it will be. You decide by yourself what kind of direction it will take you. I believe that we all have the strength inside us to manage to survive it. However, I realise that my stressed situation of getting my blog hacked was hard attack on my blog and it took me many ours and gave me a lot os stress. It was a stress that was added upon my other hours of struggle as an entrepreneur. Hours after hour after hours I put down in my work this year. First I studied and I did the morning in one school and than in the afternoon I went to another. Later in the evening I worked to create the blogs so of course I was sad and miserable when someone attacked my page. But what is interesting is the process of stress. Sure I will manage but I learned something important that I didn’t do before. A stressful time should be followed by a period of anti-stress. Take a relaxing day and permit yourself to do nothing, or at least something very nice to keep yourself in balance. And if the stressful period has been long and very intensive than take the days that is required to get yourself in balance again.